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Enter Snarky Comment Here
Sep 28th
Oh My Fucking Shit!
So… that girl… you know which one. The female-thing that is technically still married to my son even though she’s on her third family somewhere (Kentucky, how appropriate) across the country.
She finally posted something new on Facebook.
Im engaged to a wonderful man !!!! Oh and i had a beautiful baby boy now hes two months old…. his name is aiden matthew stone
Arrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhh!
Now the only things I can think of posting in reply are soooo snarky.
- Congratulations! Will you keep this one for more than a year?
- Congratulations! Don’t forget your daughter’s 4th birthday tomorrow, Oh wait, you’ve already forgotten your daughter so never mind.
- Congratulations! Funny how you named him after the one man you’ve been with in the last four years that didn’t impregnate you.
- Congratulations! Guess that’ll be a long engagement considering you’re still married.
- Congratulations! Boys who are abandoned by their mothers tend to grow up and become serial killers. Do him a favor and adopt him out before he becomes attached.
- Congratulations, you fucking white trash whore.
Whew, I think I’m done. Thanks for letting me get that out of my system.
really bad day
Nov 8th
Kira kicked my ass this afternoon.
Didn’t even hear from Dad today. I know I’m boring but what else has he got to do besides hang out with me?
Uncomfortable phone conversation with DIL. She’s getting impatient and a bit bitchy but I’m not driving this kid all the way to Phoenix again to find her. She needs to come halfway. And she needs to stop stretching the truth to make her actions look better and accusing Casey of hiding Kira. Just because he moved that doesn’t mean he did it to spite her.
Seriously uncomfortable SERIES of phone calls with Buck. He’s drunk again and yet he thinks he’s fine. Yes I hung up on him when he started yelling and then he hung up on me when I had to yell at him to hang-on-a-minute when Ginnie came up to see what I was yelling about. And then another call. And then a text from Max that Buck had called him and was he drunk or something? Way to be a parent there Buckles. I told him if he wanted to have a conversation (because that’s what he keeps saying – do I really REALLY want to go through with this and that we need to have a talk) he needed to chose NOT to fucking drink beforehand. I won’t even try to talk to him unless he’s sober. It’s his choice.
Jesus Christ.
Two bowls of chocolate ice cream. Really bad day. I think I’ll cry for a while now.
I don't know what the hell is wrong with me.
Oct 30th
I’ve had this intermittent abdominal pain all day. Not in the stomach but higher up like the beginning of the intestine. Or whatever is on both sides high up around the stomach. Sharp enough to take my breath away and then migrates down to my lower back. And then goes away.
Shit.
And no, I have no problems in that particular department. That was my first guess, a back-up in the plumbing. Just sharp pains every 20-30 minutes or so. No upset stomach, no problems eating or going to the bathroom. Not even gas.
If it’s still bad tomorrow I’ll call the nurse line. Damned difficult having my health care provider in downtown frakking Phoenix. Cuts down on the bullshit visits though.
I wonder if I can go to the VA clinic over at Williams Gateway?
Speaking of not needing this shit, I’ve had contact with the Daughter-in-Law. Apparently her long disappearance can be attributed to going back to prison to finish out her parole violation and now she’s legally free and clear of that. And wants to see her daughter. I gave Casey her phone number and told him to call her. I so don’t want to get in the middle of that but she’s asking me to. She wants me to mediate between them because “I’m so blunt and calm and honest” and all they do is fight.
Fuck.
And I re-did my own divorce papers today. I have his new address and stuff so I’ve printed everything out. I just need to make the requisite copies and go file them with the court. I found a paragraph that they’ll work the financing if you need it, so I’m going down to see what I can do. With the car crap going on I really don’t have the starting price of $276, then on top of that there’s the added fees to get him served. I could do it myself free but after the phone call tonight . . .
(pain, oh shit, deep breath) Skip the next few paragraphs – it’s just bitching for the record.
Where he snarked at me that I never call him so he needs to call me to make sure I’m alright. And what about our tax filing that he is planning to go to HR Block because I screwed it up so badly last year. If I remember correctly, the biggest screwup was his fucking employers not sending the W2s in time. And what to do about the car loans in both of our names? I won’t have a car because he can’t make my payments. I’m making my payments! Because the loan is in his name. Both loans are in both of our names, Buck. So he expects me to screw him over the car, too? Asshole.
And then the conversation moved to how he’s soooo sure he’s at the bottom of the list of people Max will want to see. He whines that Ginnie is so hard to get time with. He doesn’t want to see her with her b/f around but can he tell her that? No. He just bitches at me that she’s too busy.
And he wonders why I don’t call him.
(aaaahhhhhh owwwwww I’m going to bed and hoping the ibuprofen kicks in soon)
Quickie
May 30th
So Casey’s boss’s sister-in-law is a lawyer and should be assisting Casey shortly. I spent an hour this morning convincing him NOT to wait too long.
Now that was disgusting!
Apr 21st
Babysat last night – supposedly so they could get ready to move today. At least that’s what was mentioned. Not a bad night. Got up this morning, enjoyed grandchild, took her over to their friend’s where I was asked:
“When are you picking her back up?”
Um, AFAIK I’m going to take Casey to rent a U-Haul and then I’m done. So I get to Casey’s and he’s not there. Granted, I was supposed to call him before I left our house but one would think you’d be at your old house packing and shit if you were gonna move TODAY. I remembered I had a key so we (Buck brought his truck so he could rescue his pool table) went in and . . .
Weekends of not breathing
Jan 7th
Long weekend, short of breath, dunno why.
Went to Golden Corral for steak last night. Seriously, that place is expensive for a buffet, but the food is really good. $10.79 per person, not including drinks. Who doesn’t include drinks?
Will upload camera contents sometime today, mostly baby pictures. Nothing’s happening here except another weekend with a house full and my temper gets shorter.
Venus is doing the dishes. I’m marking this moment for posterity. More >
To answer you both
Jan 5th
She’s supposed to be on the state AHCCCS program, free health care for basically poor people. Which does, in fact, provide for a primary care physician, if she’d ever bothered to look for one. Even after all that gall bladder mess, she never bothered to find one. Most doctors around here will take AHCCCS because they know they’ll get paid. AND she never bothered to call back the number that I gave her (twice) for the AHCCCS office because she never bothered to give them an address change. So they stopped her coverage.
And when you ask her about it, she whines she forgot. Nice.
Good thing the baby was assigned to a pediatrician or she’d never have decent health care either.
Good thing is, all she has to do is fill out a form and the program will retroactively cover yesterday’s fun and put her back on the program. 5 will get you 10 she’ll find a way to screw that up, too.
Casey’s wondering if this will stop their food stamps, too.
I swear that girl can’t DO anything. Oh wait, she can whine. She quit her job. Worked at Circle-7-11-K for what, 2 weeks? I never got a good answer for that, she just whined they didn’t treat her right.
:enormous rolling of the eyes here:
I’d forgotten how much noise babies make when they’re sleeping. They moan, and coo, and grunt, and semi-cry, and jerk and twitch. I don’t usually hear her when they’re over unless she gets a good cry on in the other room, but last night she slept with us.
Anyone who says “slept like a baby” thinking it means slept well, never slept with a baby.
Bits of fluff… if they floated, mostly shit that doesn't float
Dec 30th
Someone calling all day from a number that shows up on reverse phone directory as some church in GA. Every time we’d answer though, it sounded like whoever it was was speaking from the bottom of Lake Erie. Garble garble garble. Ends up being #2 son from Iraq – figure that one out. Call number 13 finally connected decently enough for him to tell me to check my email, like I don’t do that 20 times a day anyway.
Lawyer consultation this morning.
