so don't ask if you don't want to know
Almost done
Tomorrow 9:00 AM – I go to court for the Default Hearing.
Feel free to come down and hold my hand. I’m fine alone – shit, I’ve been doing stuff alone for quite some time. But if you want to come hang out with me, be welcome. I’ll probably be there for a few hours.
Southeast Court
222 E. Javelina, Suite 1300
Mesa, Az. 85210
He signed the parenting plan. I found a template online (from Tennessee) and edited that down to more of what we needed. It sets up actual visitation – which neither of them will likely abide by – and who is doing the health/dental/eyeball insurance and stuff. Plus rights and responsibilities. And he gave me a recent check stub so I can be precise about how much he makes for child support.
I sure hope I didn’t miss any steps. I read the directions over about 20 times. I still need to make some copies, but other than that I’m ready. More than ready.
| Print article |









about 4 years ago
Once again I wish that you and I lived closer to each other, if I was within an hour’s drive of that courthouse I would SO be there.
But since I’m not, I’ll just be sending you happy thoughts and all that kind of rubbish.
Go Debbie GO!~
about 4 years ago
wish I could go with you. I went alone, then went back to work. I didn’t have anyone to go with me and it felt pretty shitty – even though I was more than ready to have it done with.
But you aren’t me … but I still wish I could go with you.
about 4 years ago
I’ll be with you in spirit — and cheering for the end!
about 4 years ago
If I didn’t have work, I’d be there.
GO EAGLE GO!
about 4 years ago
You go girl!
about 4 years ago
Good luck Deb. I’d come sit with you if I could.