Based on an empty bank account.

I can’t go anywhere. I have no money until the first of the month. 98% of his paycheck today went to the rent so we had a conversation yesterday. Not ultimatums, just important points of interest.

1. I won’t tolerate the giant economy sized drinks every day. He has no clue how he is when he’s drunk been drinking. He thinks he’s all suave and cute and really he’s rough and sloppy. And no driving after drinking, period. He’s in enough shit over that already without taking the chance of making matters worse or even killing someone.

2. No more lying or prevaricating or half-truths about where he goes. He’s a grown man and I don’t need to low-jack him, but at this point in time I’m too suspicious for him to have normal grownup freedoms. He needs to accept the fact that I don’t trust him and make some effort to assuage that mistrust instead of telling me I’m full of shit.

3. He needs to put more cash in the family pot. As of today, his paycheck is direct deposit and he’ll pull from that for spending cash instead of just handing me what he feels like at the time.

It sounds like I’m all bitchy and he’s being put on a leash but tough shit. We’ll see what happens now.