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Archive for May, 2006
Hugging
May 31st
I’m not a hugger. The only person I can comfortably hug is my husband. When my kids were little, under 6 or seven, I could hug them no problem, but now? Not so much. I DO hug them, because that’s what parents do, and they need hugs. But I’m really uncomfortable. With my own parents, too. I see them so seldom I want to hug them, but once in the embrace, I’m tense and hold my breath. The shorter the hug the better.
My best friend here is a HUGE hugger. She hugs hello, she hugs goodbye, she hugs for any reason at all. I’ve known this woman 10 years and I still can’t tell her how much I dislike it. I just grin and bear it.
How do you tell people without hurting their feelings? It’s not personal, I really don’t like hugging ANYONE. It’s such an individual thing. No matter how you say something, they’re gonna take it personally. I just get so tense and get this ooky feeling in my gut. Is it fair to me to grin and bear it?
This can’t be normal.
Just a-wondering
May 31st
Read a blurb in the paper this morning:
Ben Affleck was rushed to the emergency room at Mount Auburn Hospital in Cambridge yesterday afternoon after suffering a painful migraine attack. Affleck was driven to the hospital by his concerned wife, Jennifer Garner, at around 2:30 p.m. He was released about two hours later. A spokesman for the actor-turned director said Affleck was “recuperating at home.” [...]
So I’m wondering, two hours? Is that a standard treatment time for a migraine or did he get special treatment (no pun intended). The few times I’ve been to the emergency room, it takes more than two hours just to SEE a doctor much less get treated and released. Except when I’m having an asthma attack, then I get right in, because it’s life-threatening.
Not trying to denigrate the effects of a migraine, I was just wondering.
Peanut Butter with Sun-Dried Tomato?
May 30th
They’re pushing this store this morning on the radio. Something about all proceeds on Friday going for some charity. I can’t get past the recipes. Ugh.
Peanut Butter with Asian Curry Spice
Peanut Butter with Dark Chocolate Duo
Peanut Butter with Jungle Banana - this I would maybe try
Peanut Butter with Raspberry White Chocolate
Peanut Butter with Sun-Dried Tomato
Peanut Butter with Creamy White Chocolate
Peanut Butter with European Café Mocha
Peanut Butter with Raspberry Dark Chocolate
Peanut Butter with Sumatra Cinnamon and Raisin
Peanut Butter with Sun-Ripened Apricot
Premium Peanut Butter – Classic Crunch
Premium Peanut Butter – Classic Creamy
PBLT: Sun-Dried Tomato PB, Bacon Bits, Lettuce & Cream Cheese
I’m sorry, but bacon bits, lettuce, cream cheese and peanut butter? Ugh.
Damn, I hate sharing MY computer with the rest of the family.
May 29th
It’s late and I’ve been either busy or waiting my turn.
I’ve seen X-Men III twice this weekend.
Driven over 150 miles around town taking kids here or there.
There was a tell-me-what-you-know-about-me meme going around that I didn’t answer for anyone. Nothing personal. I didn’t respond to ANYONE’S. I don’t really KNOW most of you people, regardless of how much you think you put out online. You could have written your entire life story last week and I wouldn’t have retained most of it. I mean, I read everyone’s posts, I just don’t retain information that well. NOTHING PERSONAL.
Dude, it’s not that I don’t like you, it’s my own failing. I like you tons. Don’t read more into our lack of response than the questions were more for people who actually KNOW you. Seriously, I just found out like last month that shadynights smokes! Or that el_mcgruffle has incredibly lousy taste in lamps! And I’ve known them online forever! If you lived next door I’d pop over and smack you around a bit, then give you a hug. That shit don’t translate so well online. {{{{hugs}}}} seems to trite to me.
Someone I thought hated me, or maybe was just really pissed at me, IMed me today, out of the blue. Surprised the she-it out of me, but I feel a lot better about some things now.
Just what I need, yet another day off tomorrow when I’ve had THAT MAN at home all last week, too. He vacuumed my fucking car this morning. That may sound great, but it just proves how bored and gorram ANNOYING he’s been. GO TO WORK ALREADY.
Ahem.
Oh, I watched Star Wars last night. The first one made, which is actually what, number 4? Guido did shoot first.
I have a shameful secret
May 25th
There’s this thing I can’t do.
I’ve tried many, many times over the years.
I’ve researched methods over the internet, asked for help from others, and experimented . . . to no avail.
Usually I ignore this particular failure of mine. We do without, or buy the end result and go from there. But I’d love to be able to do this particular thing and reap the rewards.
Things to do today
May 24th
Compare Taylor Hicks’ voice with Dave Matthews.
Update Calendar with all the crud coming up in June.
- Venus’ Baby Shower on the 4th.
- Venus’ OB appointment on the 6th.
- Debbie’s Gyn appointment on the 8th.
- Wingin’ It pool party on the 10th.
- Father’s Day on the 11th.
- Debbie’s Mammogram on the 19th.
Ginnie got a scrolled invitation yesterday to someone’s Quinceañera this Saturday. It’s printed in Spanish, on blue rice paper with gold script that’s shadowed. I can barely make out the address of the hall. My eyesight has gotten so bad if it ain’t black printed font on white background, I have to struggle. Venus’ invitation is at least on pastel card stock with a fairly large script font. Cut older people some slack!
I love my LJ friend’s page, because it comes up clean and crisp with no bizarre coloring and flashing elaboration. Even inkytwist has finally revamped her LJ page so if I had to I could read it. Spend some time perusing MySpace. You’ll go batty. And blind.
Buck just snuck in the back door and scared the shit right out of me. He was supposed to be at the shop all day setting up stuff. I’m sitting here in the office as usual with the radio on (until 10 when Beth and Bill sign off) and noticed a man’s shadow reflected on the living room wall.
Watch Lost finale tonight.
I was seriously cranky night before last, and bloated yesterday. I could have sworn I was gonna start today, but nothing so far. If I do it’ll only be 16 days since I started my last one. Fuck.
Tomorrow is Gin’s last day of school, her last day of Jr. High. After school I pick her up, run across town and pick up Talia. Talia spends the night and sometime Friday, Leticia’s brother will drop her off, too. We’re seeing X-Men III somewhere in there, and Leticia’s going with Gin to the party and I’m dropping Talia off before. Feeling like Bus Driver Bertha as usual.
I need a math person to figure out my new car’s mileage. Saturday I put $20 in @ 3.10 a gallon and drove 122 miles, both highway and city.
Buck's job shite this week
May 23rd
Buck works at Tire Pros. This is the second time he’s worked for this particular corporation. LAST week (and all last year) he worked for a franchiser guy, “Big Jim,” who actually lived in Ohio and let his 20-something grandson pretty much run (into the ground, apparently) the shop. I once met the old dude over dinner and wasn’t impressed. Buck doesn’t DO tires BTW, he does the high performance stuff like lifts and engine rebuilds and crud.
Anyway, over the last few months the paychecks have been getting wanky, either late or personal checks, twice cash and then checks drawn on some weirdo bank nobody’s ever heard of. Last Friday (the 19th) Buck took the day off work to get his truck detailed – as per his purchase agreement – and we wandered around the mall and went to the movies. By the time we got home there were like 10 messages and calls on the caller ID from both work and one employee name Mitch.
(((Mitch is a hottie – I luuuuuurrrrrve Mitch – not important to the story though.)))
“They” were emptying the shop. All the lifts, tires, rims, office stuff, oil drums, even the friggin’ soda machine onto trucks that night. Sneakin’ off with the goods, unbeknown to Tire Pros corporate – who Buck is friends with. So Buck went down to the shop, and not having any way to load his Box and all his other tools or keys to the building to get them later, had the guys take it with them to the new location. Which ended up being downtown Phoenix, one (dirty, nasty, crime-infested) block away from Chase Field.
SO on Monday, after much phone tagging, he rented a trailer and we went downtown to get his stuff. Mitch was there and I told him to save his ass and get out. He could do so much better. Buck told him to start wearing his gun in plain site, as the neighborhood likes pretty boys like him. Hopefully he’ll listen.
And Buck’s back in the original shop, now being run by corporate Tire Pros instead of some moron and he should actually be physically at work by Thursday or Friday, setting the new shop up the way he wants it.
Why? Meme
May 22nd
Be honest: why am I on your friends list? (go ahead, be honest, I can take it)
Answer and post this in your journal.
Princess Bride is on the TV, so I must hurry.
Big to-do shite going on with Buck’s job, but the final weekend result is his stuff is back where it belongs. The entire shop is empty, but his Box, workbench, welding crap, and assorted boxes of crud are in one corner. More later.
Oh, and he’ll be home for a few more days while the shop is refurbished. Whoopie-shit. More mediocre midday sex.
Still don’t know about nephew’s sentence.
Still don’t know about son’s ex’s sentences.
Had a great B-B-Q over at the neighbor’s. Seriously need to do that more often.
Will flush out more on these factoids later, if anyone cares.








